Attraction+between+men+and+women


 * Attraction between men and women!**

**Is attraction between the two sexes just chemistral or is it real love? What kind of things is it that creates this attraction in the beginning of a romance? Let’s try to find out!**

Attraction is the key, and it is a really strong emotin that we can feel. A rule that a lot of people tell us is that you learn all about this as a kid and when you grow up as an adult we suddenly get all confused about this thing called love. For example – do you remember when you were a child and someone teased you to get your attention? Perhaps they threw an eraser at you and laughed. Or maybe you made a pen mark on someone’s arm and then looked away, pretending that is was not you who made the mark. Those kind of things were all humorous teases that made us pay attention to the other person and made us attracted enough to play the game further.

Something that women find attractive in men is no longer the one who’s biggest and strongest, if we look at how we are civilised today that is no longer necessary in order to be attractive. Nowadays women like men who has charisma, status, respect, looks…and things like that. Of course there is exceptions. What we men find attractive in women is almost the same – beauty, personality and stuff like that.

Eye contact is one of the most common and also one of the most successful flirting gestures, if you for example stare at the other sex for about 2-3 seconds this is seen as an extreme interest. The gaze trigger a primitive part of the human brain, calling forth two basic emotions – approach or retreat. You cannot ignore the eyes of another person fixed on you, you must respond. You may smile and start a conversation or you may look away and stare at the door instead. Before you do either of these you will probably tug at an earlobe, adjust your sweater, yawn or do some other meaningless movement called – a “displacement gesture”.

The experience of being in love may be a mixture of many emotions, with the experience there is of course some feelings that are not sexual at all, such as pride and possessiveness, jealousy and fear. We experience some visuals of the other sex’s body attractive, and this attractiveness draws us to get involved and make sex. This kind of attractiveness is important in order to develop sexual love, because it has often being pointed out that the sex organs themselves has never been regarded as beautiful.

Love is probably the strongest emotion that we can feel, both in good and bad ways. And it is indeed something that we can't control, we can't control who we wanna fall in love with and vice versa, but it is often very easy to fall in love, but can you stay there forever?


 * // This looks like some really non-straight shit / Mustalainen MC. //**